very sad situation, a little girl who was on my daughter's softball team, she was 12, got killed over the weekend in one of those Polaris ATV's, they were riding it around and it flipped and landed on her. The funeral is tomorrow 10am - 2 pm.  A tragedy for a young person like that to lose their life.  So I'll be going to that tomorrow, funerals for little ones like that are the worst, not that funerals are fun, just saying it's higher level of sadness when it's a very young person.  

none of us want to live longer than our kids. I told my kids as an example: if they got really sick and were going to die but they could be saved by taking something from me but I would die instead - I told them I wouldn't even hesitate, not that I want to die but at least I'm 52, have seen and done things give them a chance to live - unlike a young person like that.  That's true of all parents of course, except the psycho paths 

anyway sometime mid day tomorrow I'll be going to that, it's only that day