Matt,

So sorry to hear about your father-in-law.

I know first hand how difficult that illness is. 

My father had a stroke that left him partially paralyzed.

It is so difficult for everyone.

But you have to do whatever it takes.  That's just what families do.

Thanks for all that you do here at BPT, but right now your priorities are with your family.  Prayers for you and your family.